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One of my goals is to launch a very small 501(c)3 foundation in 2026. The mission of the nonprofit is to donate very cuddly plush Maltese dogs to hospice patients, particularly those of Japanese ancestry in SoCal and Hawaii.

That may sound silly to you but for those who know my backstory, it will make sense.

Anyway, for the past month or two I’ve been busy establishing the nonprofit, getting the approvals, setting up budgets, devising funding strategies, contacting hospice providers and all the myriad things one does to set up a public benefit corporation. I’ve founded companies before, but never in the nonprofit sector so I have much to learn. I’ll bore you all about it later on. Or maybe not – this is a silly dog blog.

One of the start-up tasks is to choose the plush Malt to be donated. I’ve examined several but my criteria are strict as to product quality, size, look and feel, safety and other stuff. Today I received two samples of potential Maltese plush dogs with potential. Same dog in two sizes.

How could anyone resist?

These pups are big time contenders to be my choice. But they have caused consternation!

Unlike other plush arrivals, I opened the boxes containing these contenders in front of our resident Mauzer.

Reiko noticed the plush dogs as soon as I slit the boxes’ tape. You could almost hear her little Mauzer voice saying, “OMG, is that a new dog in MY house?”

She stared and stared and then backed slowly away, never losing eye contact. For my part, I cuddled the plush dog, stroked it and made the hand sign for “good girl” to it. Reiko started quietly whining.

The Mauzer standoff.

I signed to Reiko to come closer, but no dice. I then sat down on the Recliner of Sloth and began petting the plush dog. Reiko took position about 10 feet away and watched while quietly whining.

I’m not sure of the messages that I was sending. I wanted to convey that a nice doggie could sit with me and be friends but I may have communicated some form of betrayal of our relationship.

Stare down at the Recliner of Sloth

I think I am going to try using the plush dog as a Senpai Dog. Have it sit with me as I watch sports on TV. Place it in bed but visible to Reiko who sleeps on the floor. Just generally show that closer is better for doggies in this house.

I will not let her access the plush dog because I fear Reiko might savage it in a fit of revenge.

Oh yeah…an update. As I was getting ready to call her, Reiko’s Vet, Dr. May called me to check in on our girl. I updated her on Reiko’s hearing disability and we talked about the collar/lead issue, behavior patterns and Reiko’s anxiety meds. The upshot is that we will begin to wean Reiko from her current meds over the next couple of weeks. Meantime, Dr. May will prescribe a sedative to help calm Reiko for when we decide to replace her collar/harness, probably early January. In the meantime, we agreed there was little to worry about just now because the property is secure. So now you know!


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27 responses to “Competition”

  1. lois Avatar

    How did the fact that you have started companies before never appear on your blog before? And you are going to start a non-profit? Does Reiko know what a good dog-dad you are? Was Max aware of your fine qualities? Inquiring minds and all that…
    After we had our little Malt, Muffin, put down at almost 15 years old (give or take, she was a rescue) I found an adorable stuffed Malt that I have kept all these years. It is actually named Muffin and was made by Russ. It looks pretty much like the ones in your photo. What a sweet gift that would be, Tom. I was about to call you a sweet man, but….😬

    1. Reiko's Journey Avatar

      Great Googly-Moogly. Compliments from Lois. Wow, we’re one step from hot, soapy showers together. Or maybe not. Blogging occurred after retirement so I never felt an interest in stepping out of the scope of silly dog stories to talk careers and stuff. I’ll probably not bring up the nonprofit again unless it intersects with Reiko’s journey although I might give you the foundation website to look at when that’s done, just for giggles. On the other hand I may end up begging for advice, one never knows.

      1. lois Avatar

        What??!! You cannot NOT talk about this nonprofit again! Yes, the foundation website would be wonderful. Yeah, begging for advice might be risky. I’m just a gal with cats who throws pathetic puns up on her posts. And is pretty darn nifty with alliteration. 😹

        1. Reiko's Journey Avatar

          You are way more than that, friend. Btw, I had forgotten about Muffin. ( my bad) I think that was how I first met you online.

  2. Helen Devries Avatar
    Helen Devries

    Who knows what your little lady thought, given her background……did your vet have a view?

    1. Reiko's Journey Avatar

      We didn’t discuss that. Would take too much backstory.

  3. marthadilo3 Avatar

    oh my gosh talking about all the parts of a nonprofit gave me flashbacks. But what a great idea! Those are super cute puppies, you have to let us know how it’s going. I think Reiko might’ve been jealous!

    1. Reiko's Journey Avatar

      This may be just one more absurd thing to do at my age. Jealousy may indeed be her reaction. It’s been just the two of us so far and maybe she likes that exclusivity even though she runs away.

  4. Bitey Dog Avatar

    So which size toy did you decide to go with? Both are beyond adorable.

    Yes, please post a link to your charity once it is established! Maybe even sell the toy puppies online for fundraising? I know several people who might be interested. 😉

    (Best of luck with your latest endeavor!)

    1. Reiko's Journey Avatar

      The big one. It’s about 14″ overall which is a better hugging size and the cost differential is minimal. I may take you up on your offer.

    2. Reiko's Journey Avatar

      btw, we were right…the Vet prescribed Trazadone.

  5. doesitevenmatter3 Avatar

    Oh! This is absolutely positively wonderful! I wish your endeavor great success! 🙂 PLEASE keep us updated!

    I wonder if Reiko is jealous of the new housemate. ??? It will be interesting to see if she accepts the new pup. I think it’s great that she noticed it and has an opinion. 🙂 Competition can sometimes be good…but if it goes bad, then you better hide that new pup! 😉

    When my maternal grandmother was quite old, and then put in hospice, she had a stuffed animal doggie (a poodle) that slept on her bed with her. She lived to be 98. Her daughter, my mom, somehow got possession of the stuffed animal doggie and had it in our house when I was growing. Before she died, at age 97, my mom gave me the stuffed animal doggie. It has been in my house ever since. When I look at it, and know the joy, comfort, and friendship it gave to my grandma, and then to my mom, it brings joy-tears to my eyes. 🙂
    (((HUGS))) ❤️ ૮₍ • ᴥ • ₎ა ❤️

    1. Reiko's Journey Avatar

      I learned that having something soft to cuddle provides hospice patients with enormous, disproportionate levels of comfort. The foundation tagline is “Jinsei no saigo ni, yasashii nukumori o” which translates to “At the end of life, a gentle warmth.” Simple mission-give plush toys to people who are dying.

      1. doesitevenmatter3 Avatar

        How is Reiko doing today?
        Is the new-pup a goner? I was thinking of all of this yesterday and thinking that new-pup mighta’ been too much too soon for poor little Reiko.

        1. Reiko's Journey Avatar

          I’ve talked a bit in the various comments here about her reaction but the quick summary is that Reiko was set back by the NewPup’s arrival and last night was crying when I sat NewPup next to me and petted it. She had her revenge this morning when I went to the gym and she ransacked anything that carried my scent. I don’t think it’s overwhelming though…just a bit of an adjustment and I hope she’ll see that a dog (in this case NewPup) can be close and safe. I won’t let Reiko get within striking distance of NewPup because Reiko would probably chew the doll up.

          1. doesitevenmatter3 Avatar

            Yes, an adjustment.
            I hope she will see that, too. It would be a good lesson to learn. 🙂

  6. Tynecastle Avatar

    Your dog is just getting used to you and you introduce another?
    Are you mad?
    What trust the dog had is now easing away.
    Puppy dogs for hospices sounds OK, it might help.
    Round here, one man takes his big golden retriever once a week to the care home, and it takes over the people there. A good idea.

    1. Reiko's Journey Avatar

      Am I mad? Absolutely. Riding the crazy bus to silly town. I thought everyone knew that by now.

  7. Xena and Lucy Avatar

    Our jacksund is insanely jealous. That’s why she attacks her big sister Lucy every time we walk through the door and pet Lucy, who is standing there smiling her big toothy smile at us. God bless Lucy for her otherworldly patience with the little mutt.
    I have no idea, either, if Reiko is jealous, alienated or scared. I have heard of doggie psychologists….
    Your altruistic plan is absolutely wonderful, and yes, I’ve seen more than one stuffed doggie riding in their wheelchairs at the nursing home where my mom-in-law lives.

    1. Reiko's Journey Avatar

      I’m thinking jealousy is likely. Last night I sat on the sofa and had the plush dog next to me and I was petting it (which is surprisingly comforting although I’d never admit that outside of these hallowed pages) and Reiko started dog crying as she sat at a distance and watched us. I tried to encourage her closer but that didn’t work. So I put the doll away (I can’t believe I’m saying this – putting my doll away) and offered a treat but even then she would not approach. When I went to the gym this morning, Reiko savaged anything that had my scent on it. As of now we are again buddies…sort of.

      1. Xena and Lucy Avatar

        LOL!! Sounds more like she was really pissed at you!

        1. Reiko's Journey Avatar

          Absolutely! If she were larger I probably wouldn’t be here. Hell hath no fury like a Mauzer scorned.

          1. Xena and Lucy Avatar

            🤣🤣🤣

  8. Marsha Gay Avatar

    That is a brilliant idea

    1. Reiko's Journey Avatar

      I hope it works out, Marsha. My son and daughter have signed on to act as directors which makes me happy. They are both very busy with their own careers, families, etc., so their volunteering to work on this is great news for me. On the other hand, since we’ll be self-funding at first, some might say they are only guarding their inheritance….nah….that couldn’t be their motive. 😉

  9. Tynecastle Avatar

    Hey Reiko, you’ve stopped posting.
    Is all right with the dog?

    1. Reiko's Journey Avatar

      Yes, all is well kind sir, and thank you for your concern. My owner, master, indentured servant has been slacking off.

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