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“Did you get the message?”

Signs, signs
Everywhere a sign
Blockin’ out the scenery
Breakin’ my mind
Do this, don’t do that
Can’t you read the sign?

About a million years ago (actually 1971 which is the same thing) the group Five Man Electrical Band put out a song called “Signs”. This less than immortal paean was written by band leader Les Emmerson who, while driving down Route 66 in California, became aware of the countless billboards and advertisements effectively blocking all views of the scenery.

That has nothing whatsoever to do with today’s post which is about hand signs for deaf dogs but, hey, I linked a YouTube version of the song just in case any of you remember it and want to wallow in the sounds of 1971 again. Bet you didn’t remember the group’s name, though.

Anyhoo…

Since discovering Reiko’s deafness, I have been diligently making up and using hand signs to communicate with her. At first I thought of adapting ASL hand signs, but I wanted all signs to be one-handed and that’s tricky with ASL, at least for me.

So I created my own. They’re pretty much intuitive. “Come” for example is the waving fingers open and closed with palm facing down (that’s actually the Japanese version – in the US we do that sign with palm up).

Random Japanese dude signing “come.”

To alert her to pay attention to something in particular I point to it with my index finger or tap the ground with my index finger. “Stay” is the hand stop sign. palm out.

You get the idea.

Here’s the thing: Reiko has really taken to these signs and is starting to comply with them better than half the time. She will approach when I sign “come.” If I then sign with my index finger to my hand, she will come and take a treat. “Stay” is more dicey but she’s getting the hang of it.

The Supremes knew the “Stay” sign

For “very good girl” I hold my hand sideways in front at mid-chest and rapidly open and close my fist.

The handiest sign so far is one I use to alert her that I am coming around a corner or going to approach her. I make it by holding my hand out in front and opening and closing my fingers as if making a claw.

Because she is deaf, she is prone to jump scares if I appear suddenly or move directly at her. By letting my hand move first around corners and such, she is given a warning. It’s working great at reducing sudden scares.

Next, we’ll have to work on “go outside and pee/poo.” I’ve got some ideas of what movements should be involved but so far they are not fit for a family blog.

Sign for “Not on the carpet again!!!” (not me)


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25 responses to “Signs, Signs”

  1. Tynecastle Avatar

    Signs are good, people often offer them to me.
    The only problem one is ‘Stay.’ No dog likes that.
    Try it on a cat!

    1. Reiko's Journey Avatar

      “Try it on a cat.” Ha. You think I was born yesterday? Cats do not care about signs. Cats don’t care much about anything other than themselves. I wonder what signs people are offering to you?

    2. lois Avatar

      haha! I have cats!! They listen absolutely NOTHING. 😹

  2. Bitey Dog Avatar

    I seem to recall learning “RR” as the ASL for bathroom/potty. Do you think that might work for Reiko, or are crossed fingers too subtle for her to recognize?

    (Congratulations on the incredible progress! Does Reiko mean “Helen”, by any chance?)

    1. Reiko's Journey Avatar

      Helen as in Keller? I don’t see how it could. I don’t hear much about it either. I guess that’s a good sign. w.a.t.e.r.

    2. Reiko's Journey Avatar

      In ASL I think bathroom is just a “T” symbol and you shake your hand back and forth. If combined with index finger pointing down I think that means “I have to go to bathroom” (not 100% sure on that). The basic bathroom sign might work for Miss Reiko as it is not in conflict with my home brew vocabulary and the style of movements is consistent with her other commands. In any case it’s better than me squatting and pointing to my rear end which is what Lois told me to do.

      1. lois Avatar

        Yes, yes, because Lois is such a classy broad.

        1. Reiko's Journey Avatar

          Can’t sneak anything past you, can I?

      2. Bitey Dog Avatar

        Hey, miming works. Lois is one smart cookie!

        1. lois Avatar

          🤣😂😹

  3. Julia Avatar

    Reiko is one smart dog. She has trained you very well!

    Nox got the bacon treats and loves them! She now loves you and Reiko very much. She hopes you got the Possy the Possom print. She wants more bacon 🥓 treats right now and is being very vocal about it.

    1. Reiko's Journey Avatar

      I couldn’t resist. A product combining beer mash and bacon. Add a little Old Spice scent and it will sell to men as well as dogs. Possy print hasn’t arrived yet but I have my eye out for it. Figuratively, because if I really had my eye out…oh, you get what I mean. 🤪

      1. Julia Avatar

        👀

  4. lois Avatar

    Reiko is making excellent progress! And pretty quickly too, I think. I do have a question though. A hand appearing to be a claw, coming around the corner, is less scary than you actually appearing around said corner? Just wondering.

    1. Reiko's Journey Avatar

      I guess that tells you just how scary looking I am. All the girls say so. Actually, I think it’s the size difference between something reasonably small appearing vs a huge hunka-hunka burnin’ love like me popping into the field of vision. I’m surprised she couldn’t tell by the smell of me approaching but maybe she is nasally disabled, too.

  5. Helen Devries Avatar
    Helen Devries

    You are really making progress!

    1. Reiko's Journey Avatar

      When one starts at absolutely ground zero, even small gains seem like triumphs, I suppose. But, oh, we have a long, long way to go.

  6. Xena and Lucy Avatar

    Reiko is smart. Can’t wait til she learns to sign, “No. YOU come HERE!” I was starting to teach my first schnauzer French when she went blind with a small tumor pressing on her optic nerve. So much for a French speaking, well at least understanding, schnauzer.

    1. Reiko's Journey Avatar

      Teaching a German breed French…there’s just too many opportunities to say something wrong here so I’ll just shut up. Max the Maltese understood all his commands in Japanese as well as English. Because he got his Japanese instructions from his primary food source, he was more responsive to that language.

      1. Xena and Lucy Avatar

        LOL! I don’t know German. I know (some) French. Hence, the choice of languages. However, you gave me a great idea. My hubby knows German, and we have our schnauzer Xena….

  7. doesitevenmatter3 Avatar

    Reiko is one intelligent gal! In no time at all she’ll have you trained! 😉
    YAY for progress made! One day at a time! Keep up the good work!
    (((HUGS))) ❤️❤️❤️

    1. Reiko's Journey Avatar

      Yeah, in time she’ll have me doing the dance of her people.

      1. doesitevenmatter3 Avatar

        Yes! And you will do it well! 😀

  8. marthadilo3 Avatar

    That’s really great! It must feel so good for her to understand what a person is saying. You know that song signs was one that my sister and I used to sing along with, and the best part was where he grunts! What a memory!

    1. Reiko's Journey Avatar

      The grunt’s at about 2m:15s and the fact that I remembered roughly where it shows up is a bit scary since I often forget what I had for breakfast. The big question is whether you can play Signs on your bells. Now, that would be a challenge.

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