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Tynecastle told me that my long-time blogging friend Helen Devries has passed away. I know that many of you also knew Helen.

Helen and I began writing to each other, both on and off the blogs, years ago. So long ago that I don’t even remember how we connected in the first place.

We were about as unlike each other as two people could be, but we shared a fondness for dogs, a delight in the random absurdities of people, and a general loathing for politicians of all stripes.

She was a unique person who, in some ways, seemed rooted in an earlier generation. She was a devoted student of history, a collector of musical oddities, a keen observer of cultures, and fierce in pointing out the foibles of her elected representatives.

Helen loved dogs, and her dream was to one day have a dog sanctuary in Costa Rica. She came close to accomplishing it before complications of government and her weakening strength got in the way. Along the way, she welcomed nine dogs into her home, and her blog posts often chronicled the riotous commotion that pack caused.

Offline, our emails consisted largely of sassing each other unmercifully.

My favorite targets were her love of cricket, an incomprehensible game, and Scottish food, which is equally incomprehensible. She always gave as good as she got, taking particular delight in criticizing my overly American version of the English language, my obliviousness to things that should have been obvious, and my insistence that Sam Adams beer and California wines are perfectly respectable adult beverages.

Did I know Helen completely? No. She was always somewhat reserved, stoic, and very much of the stiff-upper-lip school.

But I knew enough.

She was warm, generous of spirit, and kind. I counted her among my friends, and I will miss our conversations.

In Costa Rica there are nine dogs crying.


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20 responses to “9 Dogs Crying”

  1. Julia Avatar

    I am sorry for your loss. She sounds like a wonderful person. Anyone who can sass you has got to be full of energy and fun.

    Does anyone know what will happen to the dogs?

    1. Reiko's Journey Avatar

      In my mind I always pictured that speaking with her would be like chatting with Maggie Smith in Downton Abbey. Propriety, scathing with and obscure historical references. One of a kind. Her blog ( one of, she had several) was “The Venomous Bead” and you should take a peek while it is still accessible, it’s here: https://asurfeitofpalfreys.wordpress.com/

      1. Julia Avatar

        I will check it out.

  2. lois Avatar

    Oh, dear. I am so sorry to hear this. Helen’s comments here always made me laugh, and she always had a comment! I will miss her and her quick wit.

    1. Reiko's Journey Avatar

      She was quick but sometimes I needed to pull out my dictionary because her command of the language was a bit above my reading level and her historical references drove me to the Chatbots every time,

      1. lois Avatar

        Oh, heck! You and me both! And I had no idea what kind of accent she had but I would hear her in my head very upper-crusty, which just seemed to fit my idea of Helen so perfectly.

  3. Murphy's Law Avatar
    Murphy’s Law

    Tom, I am so very sorry for the loss of your friend. Helen’s comments were a blog of their own. She had an incredible sense of humor that always had me laughing. She was the perfect person to exchange snark with you! I hope her babies found a loving, safe home, preferably all together.

    You wrote a beautiful tribute to her. She’s probably still correcting your grammar! You were a true friend.

    ginger🦋

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      Anonymous

      Correcting my grammar…that made laugh because my grammar was frequently a target for Helen’s wit. A fun thing we used to do was trade common folk sayings and metaphors from our times growing up.

  4. Bitey Dog Avatar

    Thank you for letting us know. Her intelligence, wit and love for her fur family will be missed in this world. 💔

    1. Reiko's Journey Avatar

      I learned of her passing from our mutual blogging friend Tynecastle. His blog addy with info is shown below in his post.

  5. marthadilo3 Avatar

    Oh I am so sorry to hear this, i enjoyed helens blog and comments.

  6. doesitevenmatter3 Avatar

    I am so very sorry to hear about the passing of your dear friend. Your tribute to her is wonderful.
    (I am crying and smiling.) I did not know Helen here on WP. It seems I sure missed out.

    My loving condolences to her family, friends, and her 9 pups. I hope her pups will have loving humans to care for them and safe, happy homes to live in.
    (((HUGS))) ❤️❤️❤️

  7. Xena, Lucy and Chia Avatar

    I am so very sorry. I wish I could help the dogs (especially the schnauzer).

  8. Bizzy Avatar

    Oh, that’s such sad news. I was worried when she mentioned — in passing, of course, being Helen — that she was just back from the hospital. I thought we’d be reading about Leo’s passing, though maybe he is gone, too, and Helen didn’t let us in on that. Helen was the best friend I never met. I will miss her more than anyone might think one could miss a blog buddy, but there it is. I do hope Danilo inherited, not those crazy relatives she sometimes wrote about, but now I’m just nattering. I need to sit with this for a while.

    1. Tails Around the Ranch Avatar
      Tails Around the Ranch

      Sadly Leo passed last year. Helen will be sorely missed by all who were lucky to have come across her blog.

  9. ergozen Avatar

    I’m very sorry for your loss. Her comments will be missed and memories of her will be cherished.

  10. Tails Around the Ranch Avatar
    Tails Around the Ranch

    A beautiful tribute to an extraordinary human. Like you, I had to have a Oxford dictionary by my side and her command of history blew me away. I learned so much from her. When Sam passed away, she took time to email me directly to see how I was doing. She was caring and her concern really touched my heart. She will be sorely missed by all lucky enough to have been graced by her wit and Scottish charm. I hope she and Leo are wandering around heaven catching up and recalling their happy years together in France. 💔

    1. Reiko's Journey Avatar

      She wrote little about it but her caretaking of Leo was extraordinary. Through his first chemo in France and then follow up treatments in Costa Rica she was his rock and strength but, being Helen, tried to never mention it.

  11. Tynecastle Avatar

    Helen and Leo planned for Danilo to inherit, not the Belgian relatives. However, the paperwork, the lawyers, and Costa Rica, London, Belgium pen pushers mean it will take much time to sort things out. Danilo was a great handyman, always fixing something but possibly not so good on administration. The dogs will be OK.
    I wrote about what little news I could find on my blog
    https://adullamite.blogspot.com/2026/08/rip-fly-in-web-also-known-as-doris-ward.html

    1. Reiko's Journey Avatar

      Thank you for providing this update and the information on your blog. Your line about how she resisted going to hospital because the cuisine was below her standards was classic Helen and it brought a smile. As you can see here, she had made many friends across a variety of WordPress blogs and will be missed by us all.

Love to hear from ya

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